*[[ Angel full of Lღve]]*

~~Friday, September 28, 2007~~

10:42:00 PM

Why is it that so few couples seem to
have found the secret to keeping love
alive after the wedding? The problem
is that what has been overlooked is
one fundamental truth: People speak
different love languages.

Your emotional love language and the
language of your partner may be as
different as Chinese from English.
Being sincere is not enough.

Seldom do partners have the same
primary love language. We must be
willing to learn our partners primary
love language if we are to be
effective communicators of love.

There are basically five emotional
love languages. Here are the five ways
that people speak and understand
emotional love:

Words of Affirmation: Verbal
compliments, or words of appreciation,
are powerful communicators of love.
They are best expressed in simple,
straightforward statements of
affirmation.

Quality Time: Looking at each other
and talking, giving your undivided
attention. That twenty or more minutes
of time will never be had again: we
are giving our lives to each other. It
is a powerful communicator of love.

Receiving Gifts: A gift is something
you can hold in your hand and
say Look, he was thinking of me,
or She remembered me. The gift is a
symbol of thought and the thought
remains not only in the mind but is
expressed in actually securing the
gift and giving it as an expression of
love.

Acts of Service: Doing things you know
your spouse would like you to do. You
seek to please her by serving her, to
express your love for her by doing
things for her. These acts require
thought, planning, time, effort, and
energy.

Physical Touch: For some individuals,
physical touch is their primary love
language. Without it, they feel
unloved. With it, their emotional tank
is filled, and they feel secure in the
love of their spouse. The touch of
love may take many forms. Dont make
the mistake that the touch that brings
pleasure to you will also bring
instant pleasure to her.

When we choose active expressions of
love in the primary love language of
our spouse, we create an emotional
climate where we can deal with our
conflicts and failures.

What if the love language of your
loved one is something that doesnt
come naturally to you? When an action
doesnt come naturally, it is a
greater expression of love.

Belong is wat i actually 'steal' from my sis(bumbum) de blog, keke, cus i think wat she say is very meaningful and i myself think that its very true, and wanna spread it abit, lolz:
READ THIS GUYS............

Guys...

Realize that the girl holding onto u is PERFECT in her own special way.
The way she laughs..
The way she sleeps..
The way she loves you
The way she tries to please you...

Always remember that.She can always get up and walk away,
getting someone else who can love her more.
For all you know,there is someone out there wooing her already,
but she is rejecting,
a maybe perfect love for her..

There might also be someone out there..
who is willing to love her more than you are loving her now,
fufill her every need and love her as much as she loves you.
Understand that.

Imagine this, guys.
When you are holding her today...
and then you cheat on her by hugging and kissing another gal.
and then you run back to her...
and u do the same....
but you see love in her eyes...
What do you think?
Do you feel the hurt?
Can you feel the guilt?

She loves you not because you are good looking, have money,
buy her things,make her parents happy,
or that you have a car.She loves you for who you are.

Will you ever notice me...